Hi, I'm Judy Iannaccone (she/her)
End-of-Life Doula & Certified Grief coach
I'm Judy Iannaccone, and Spirited Crossings is my practice.
I work with people at two of life's hardest crossings: the end of a life, and the grief that follows one. As an end-of-life doula, I accompany those who are dying and their loved ones. As a certified grief coach, I sit with those who are living after a loss.
This is non-medical, non-clinical work. I don't replace hospice, your doctor, or a therapist. They do essential care within limited hours. I'm there for the rest: the fear, the questions, the long conversations, the meaning-making that no one else has time to sit with.
I've been accompanying clients in end-of-life work for about five years. I can't promise you a peaceful death or an orderly grief. I can promise presence, honesty, and steadiness in the middle of something hard.
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How I Can Help You?
End-of-Life Doula Support
For those facing a serious illness or the end of life — their own or a loved one's. I provide companionship and comfort, vigil planning, legacy and life-review work, help with end-of-life decisions and documents. For family caregivers, I offer presence, practical resources, and steady support. In person, in and around Orange County, CA.
Grief Coaching
For those living after a death, wherever you are — including the loss of an animal companion. Private sessions by video: compassionate listening, grief that's met rather than managed, ritual and remembrance, and a way back toward life. Coaching, not therapy.
"Judy brings her full self, body of knowledge, and gentle nurturing to each client she serves. Her compassion, depth of skills, and wisdom brings valuable support to all those she serves. I would wish for her to be by my side before, during, and after my death."
Dr. Andrea Deerheart
Founder, The HeartWay
Frequently Asked Questions
No. I'm not tied to any church or religious organization, and I don't bring an agenda into your space. I work with people of every faith and of none. Whatever you believe about what comes next, I meet you there. If ritual or spiritual practice matters to you, we can include it. If it doesn't, we won't.
For end-of-life doula work, I'm at the bedside in person in and around Orange County, CA — and I can support family from a distance by video when the person they love is here. Grief coaching is done by video, so we can work together wherever you are. I work in English and Spanish.
Not at this time. Doula and grief coaching services aren't currently covered by most insurance, so my work is private-pay. I keep my fees clear and listed on each service page — no surprises.
A simple way to tell: if you're facing a serious illness or the end of life — your own or someone you love's — that's end-of-life doula support. If someone has already died and you're living with the loss, that's grief coaching. If you're not sure, tell me what's happening and I'll point you the right way, even if it's not to me.
With a free 15-to-20-minute call. No pressure and no obligation — a chance to tell me what's going on and see whether we're a fit. If we are, we'll talk about next steps. If we're not, I'll help you find who is.
When is the best time to begin working with an end-of-life doula? Sooner than most people think. Many imagine a doula arrives only in the final days, but that's just one part of the work. You don't need a terminal diagnosis to begin. It is never too early to consider your final wishes or to start a legacy project. Some of my clients have come to me a few weeks, or even days, before death; others I've worked with for more than a year. Along the way, I can offer holistic modalities that support comfort, calm, and ease: guided imagery, Yoga Nidra, Reiki biofield therapy, essential oils, loving rituals, and chimes or a singing bowl.
Check out my feature article(opens in new tab) in Orange Coast Magazine! (head to page 84)
Ready to talk?
The first step is a free intro call. Bring your questions, your worries, or just your uncertainty — you don't need to have the words figured out.