You don’t have to walk this journey alone.
End-of-Life Doula offering non-medical companionship and steady presence for the dying and those who love them, before, during, and after.
Do you wish for someone to walk alongside you — or someone you love?
Facing the end of life — your own, or a loved one’s — can feel like more than anyone should carry alone. The fear, the decisions, the things left unsaid, the sheer exhaustion of it.
As an end-of-life doula, I advocate for your needs and tend to your emotional and spiritual concerns, offering a calm, steady presence through the end of life. Some people come to me in the final days. Others, who are living with a diagnosis, aware of what lies ahead, and wanting company for the road, begin much earlier. We are all unique individuals who approach life on our own terms. Why should our approach to death and dying be any different?
Together we make room for the hard conversations and prepare for what’s coming, thoughtfully and without rush. Preparations can bring peace of mind, ease some anxiety, and spare your loved ones from making every decision in the middle of a crisis. I can't promise you a peaceful death. None of us can control that. But I can offer companionship: a hand to hold when it helps, a listening ear, and space for whatever is moving through you.
My offerings include advance directives, life review, legacy projects, vigil planning, bedside support, guided meditation, Reiki, rituals, and grief support. This support is for the dying and for those who love them, before, during, and after a death. Services are available in English and Spanish.
Compassionate End-of-Life Services
Are you feeling overwhelmed as you or someone you love nears the end of life? Are you struggling to talk with your family about final wishes? Are you longing for calm, and for someone beside you at this time? Together we can prepare — so that you and the people you love face what comes with more steadiness, and less fear.
Preparing with Intention and Care
Together we prepare for the end of life with calm and intention. Our work can include a life review, your end-of-life choices and documents, and legacy projects: videos, letters, and things you want to leave for the people you love.
We can envision your final days and make a plan for them, so that when the time comes, the hard decisions are already made. Each session is shaped around you.
Intuitive End-of-Life Services
Depending on your preferences, offerings for you and your family can include personalized guided imagery, Yoga Nidra relaxation and meditation, Reiki (a gentle energy practice), and loving rituals. When it feels right, I bring gentle aromatherapy, a singing bowl, or chimes into the space.
Vital Resources and Referrals
You and your family may require additional support. For needs outside my scope of practice, I can find appropriate resources, including hospices, caregivers, green burial options, cremation, palliative care, assisted living, legal support, and more. You are not alone.
Please let me know how I can support you at this moment. Book a free introductory call, or reach me by email.
My fee is $100 per hour with discounted packages available for multiple sessions. We can talk through what fits your needs on a free introductory call.
Frequently Asked Questions
An end-of-life doula, or death doula, is a non-medical professional who guides individuals and their families through the dying process: offering presence, support, advocacy, education, and companionship.
An end-of-life practitioner (ELP) is trained as a death doula and then goes further. The difference lies in the depth of education, the scope of practice, and the supervised training behind it. An ELP works side by side with hospice, hospitals, and other care teams, offering practical, psychological, social, and spiritual support for both the dying and the people who love them — helping families cope, bringing meaning to the experience, and restoring a sense of the sacred to dying.
Every ELP is a death doula; not every death doula is an ELP. Because I completed the 600-hour practitioner path — with client hours and a supervised internship — I am a trained End-of-Life Practitioner.
An end-of-life practitioner (ELP) is a comforting, knowledgeable presence who understands the dying process — a compassionate resource for families who may feel overwhelmed and grieving as a loved one nears the end of life. An ELP offers a range of services through this passage, but is, above all, a grounding and dependable presence during a profoundly emotional time.
End-of-life practitioners (ELPs) complement the professional medical care from hospices, hospitals, or senior care facilities. An ELP supports not only the dying person but also their loved ones. Upon request of the person or the family, ELPs can offer vigil sitting, life review, end-of-life planning, legacy work, and grief support — at home, in a care facility, or in the hospital. Many services are also available virtually. In my practice, I am not affiliated with any hospice; my work complements their care. I provide support for your emotional, spiritual, and practical needs before, during, and after a death.
Yes, considerable training.
My initial end-of-life doula training was through the International End of Life Doula Association (INELDA). I then completed 600 hours of education, client hours, and supervision to become an End-of-Life Practitioner through The HeartWay.
My additional training includes:
- Reiki Master — Usui System of Reiki Healing
- Yoga Nidra Teacher Training — California College of Ayurveda
- Yoga Nidra End-of-Life Training — California College of Ayurveda
- Aromatherapy in Palliative Care — CSU Shiley Haynes Institute for Palliative Care
- Certified Grief Coach
- Medical Aid in Dying training — American Clinicians Academy on Medical Aid in Dying
I have served as a volunteer with The HeartWay, Traditions Health, and Salus Hospice. Drawing on a 30-year public relations career, I can also write obituaries. I am bilingual in Spanish and English, and have studied French and Italian.
Spirited Crossings is not associated with any religion or denomination, nor does it have a religious agenda. I respect my clients’ religious beliefs and needs, and will integrate these into our work together whenever requested. I welcome clients of all religious beliefs, and those who have none.
Whenever you feel ready. You don't need a terminal diagnosis to begin. It is never too early to consider what your final wishes might be, or to begin a legacy project. Some clients have come to me a few weeks, or even days, before a death; others I have worked with for more than a year. Wherever you are on this path, we can begin there.
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